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One Year-itis
I can't believe I was seriously considering skipping this month's entry. Its ten days late, but it's here! I put together this site about a year ago and I've got to admit that it's been difficult keeping this blog active with semi-interesting topics for this long. Motivation to update seems to drop every now and then. Especially since alternative activities seem so much more appealing to me now. I know when I'm procrastinating or being lazy. You can just tell when you start using "I don't have enough time" as a valid excuse. It's not. I'm sure if we really tried to; finding that extra hour or two at the end of the day is possible. With my addictive tendencies, I think I go through my rotation of website bookmarks at least 20 times a day. I need to stop doing that. When it comes to financials, errands, paperwork, etc - I get them done as soon as possible. Tasks I tend to push back the most are: (1) writing, (2) designing flyers, and (3) working out. How about yourself?
Retired Instructor
If you haven't noticed the little blurb on the "DateWill" tab by now, it had read: 
"Hi, I'm Will. What's your name?"
Confidence
So, what truly defines a confident individual? How well-established do you believe you are? Your education, finances, career path, health, social well-being, etc. Do you feel like you have choice in the women you date? Can you masterfully articulate yourself and express the man you are? As much as you desire it, can you keep the girl of your dreams for however long you want? Complacency is the enemy. To live life, you need to learn how to constantly improve yourself. Be able to realize your unlimited true potential. Have authority over your life and interactions. Are you motivated enough?
The Approach
Day: You've barely got half an hour before your afternoon status meeting. It's another hectic day at the office, but you're feeling risky and decide to make your way downtown to grab a better meal than the usual. Rain clouds from the night before still hover over the city. But the sunlight manages to pierce through for a brief moment, drawing your attention to a gorgeous young broad just ahead of you. She looks smart, confident, and has an amazing sweet smile. Casually scrolling through her Blackberry as she waits for her coworkers, she observes the busy world around her. You hear the sound of tires on wet concrete and feel a light breeze as a cab passes by. With a confident smile, you gain eye contact, and begin to make your move in her direction. Are you ready?
Night: The crowd watches curiously as you walk straight up to the entrance, without ever taking a look back to see who's on the VIP line. You pat the bouncer on the back as he greets you with a warm and welcoming smile. You've got status. Your calm confidence is by itself attractive. The rest of the guys in the club look frightened, holding their drinks up against their chest like a protective shield. By chance, a girl wearing a shimmering black dress brushes against you as she makes her way onto the dance floor with her entourage. The dress is short, running just a little below her waist. It reveals a pair of slender legs and smooth thighs that never seem to end. Sexy. Looking in your direction, she bites her bottom lip, points at you, and signals to come over. The beat of the music begins to get louder. What do you do?
Courtship
Initial attraction was easy. In fact, she was the one who had suggested the exchange of numbers. Now, where do you take it from there? How can you turn a casual encounter into something more meaningful? Are you interested in a platonic or romantic relationship? Ultimately, the choice is yours and it can lead to anywhere. If the girl is as attractive as you remember her to be, she has already seen it all: guys who have asked for the dinner-movie date, drinks at their place, a shopping spree on their credit card, sweet talkers, etc. How can you make an everlasting impression that will make her working to get you? Let's talk.
Relationship Management
The honeymoon phase is now over. As time moves forward, the relationship already seems to be on its deathbed. Engagement? Maybe. Marriage? Sure it'll be fun. But is this truly the match made in heaven you've been dreaming of? The two of you spend the weekdays sitting in front of the television to unwind from the long workday. Maybe once in a while you go out for dinner, catch a movie, go to a small party, or even go on a picnic with a few of your friends. The sex and romance that was once burning with lustful passion is all but lost. I can already see the comfortable glaze in both of your complacent eyes. Where is this all heading? What has gone wrong in this relationship? It's time.
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Let's have a date, with the future you.
Will.
It's gone. While it was very rewarding to share the vast knowledge I had gained from pursuing the art of pickup, seduction, and social dynamics.. I've come to realize the challenges of establishing a truly reliable client base without a reputable company or brand name. As an aspiring instructor for Charisma Arts, I never really had the intention of making this a full time commitment. More so, just something on the side that I would enjoy teaching given my availability. In my eyes, my mentees have all graduated from my course and are onto their own individual paths in life. While many instructors in this market work hard to keep their clients, I worked to get them off and on their own. Since the topics still marvel me, I'll continue writing and improving for myself. But I will no longer be available as an instructor.
Alpine White
After one hell of a month of passing around legal paperwork in the mail to finance for and purchase my car through a private sale.. I finally got to pick up my 2004 BMW 330ci fully loaded ZHP on the 4th of this June. With 240hp and a 0-60 of 5.6 seconds, it's quite the upgrade from my old high school ride: 1992 BMW 318is. It's no M3, but it sure is fun to drive! Ever since the day I picked it up, I've been working primarily on aesthetic modifications to ensure no warranties on the car are voided. It came with an extended warranty and service plan until 2012, so I definitely don't want to mess any of that up. I signed up for a BMW CCA Autocross this upcoming weekend to test my ride on the tracks. Really looking forward to pushing the ZHP Performance Package to its limit! :D
Want to be VIP? Act It
Have you ever been questioned by a customer service representative, sales agent, or security? Unless you live under a rock, I'm sure you have. There are certain services in society that are privilegesdfor some of the most ridiculous reasons. The other night at Pearl Nightclub, I saw a few of my friends struggling to get into the VIP section because it was a special event night. On any other night, they would have been allowed to roam freely in and out of the section. But this night, they assigned security guards to bounce anyone who didn't have a bracelet. And they were being just plain rude about it. Without a bracelet, but with authority - I approached the security guy and advised him that these guys were my friends and to let them in from now on. I didn't know the guy. And I'm sure he didn't know if I even worked there. I'm no Robin Hood. But if your intentions are non-malicious, I believe social engineering is a great way to reap service benefits that even the average person should have.
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