Descent
It’s been a rough ride. With all the ups and downs life has brought me, this has got to be lowest I have reached yet. Having had separated from PwC on July 1st, I have been actively seeking new employment ever since. Submitting resumes, writing cover letters, filling out applications, preparing for interviews - the whole shebang. I haven’t been very straightforward with people in regards to this subject over the past month. Mostly because it’s fucking embarrassing. Let me tell you straight up: being unemployed is NOT a good feeling. There is no longer a comfort in sitting at home and doing absolutely nothing. I haven’t felt like this since my summers back in High School. I am the epitome of underutilization. I feel mentally unchallenged. And finances (especially with the car) are beginning to creep up on me. I should have better prepared for this. I have a few prospects as to where I’ll be. It may be unwise, but I’m still being highly selective. Everything will be more clear by my next entry. So until then, I’ll be busy clouding my doubt with positivity. Gloom is luminescent. Thunderstorms, my sunshine. Pair of deuces, a royal flush!

The Pygmalion Effect
So let’s say you’re in a similar situation as myself. Worse or better, what have you. It’s critical to stay on top of your responsibilities during your own time. True confidence derives from the authority you claim over your life. But if you’re out to socialize, please lose the tissue box and bed covers. Stop criticizing yourself. It’s not the time or place. What are the roles of looks and money in pickup? ZERO FACTOR WHATSOEVER. Your appearance may need to be somewhat presentable. But other than that, it doesn’t matter if you don’t have a pretty boy face or drive a Ferrari. Men don’t get girls by qualifying themselves in these areas, so don’t bother. Assume success in your life and interactions. Consider it as a challenge, a game, a learning experience, and most importantly: an opportunity. You’ll notice an immediate difference in how people perceive you.

Simple Rules for Winging
1. Tonight is NOT your night. You are a support.
2. Be social. But never dominate your wing.
3. Don’t contradict your wing. Or get defensive.
4. Pay attention to logistics. Work for your wing.

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